Not in love

“Hey Ashwin, Look at that girl. She is so beautiful. Cant wait to talk to her.”

“Hi, I am Nikhil. Whats your good name. “

“HI. I am Shreya. Can you tell me where can I find the college office.”

“Sure, Its on the top floor. Well I cant resist to tell you the fact that you are simply gorgeous. I am in love with you. “

This is how most of love stories started. But were they successful. Commitment ended up with mud-slinging activities. Do you know where they failed?

One needs to draw a line between like and love. You like your friends, but you love your mom. Liking is easy because it straightly displays your reaction to the subject. Love is more complicated because you need to introspect before you actually fall into this ocean.

OK. Lets start with why do we love someone. Yes opposite sex do attract each other. But that doesn't suffice this question. Its very hard to have a pure heart. Do you know what I mean? Well we all have a dark heart. Accept it.  There are many ways in assessing a person. His/her height, face, beauty, figure, etc.

We get infatuated to a human as soon as we see him the first time. “I love you coz you are my source of happiness. I feel happy because of you. By having you as my life partner my image in the society has amplified.”  Don’t you think we are selfish? Ever seen from the other side.

You feel angry when your partner doesn’t act in a way you want him to behave. Why? Because you have not explored him properly. Two days of goody goody chat doesn't make a couple. We all see the good things first and ignore the not good things. We always show what is best in us

A long friendship when gets converted into love is a 99.9% success, because they have rightly know each other. Commitment doesn’t come in one day or a week or a few months, but over a period of time.

The love of you and your mom in unconditional love. There are no circumstances involved which trigger selfishness. Your mom raises you and protects against all threats and you in her old age take care of her.

You must have experienced someone who was a hard nut to crack, but in real terms he was a sweet heart from within. Love has to be judged internally too. One needs to develop an ability to see within a person. Your friend giving a helping hand to his worst enemy. What does this indicate. You got it right in your mind. This is what one needs to watch in your life partner.

If you are pure from within, you should look for someone like you. Trust your destiny. Don’t fall in love because you are the only one left in your group with no partner. Having committed status on FB wont make you the duke of your area.

So just live up and see your happiness in your own soul..…….