Shaping a life

We all have some good points and some bad ones. Some are formed over a period of time. Since we live in a overcrowded nation, our day to day interaction with others does affect our behavior. 

Most of us have heard our close ones saying – “Hey that wont be possible to you.”  And we just loose a try on it. 

Have you wondered what may be the reason hampering your growth?

 

Let me take you back in time, from your inception. Your parents were really happy seeing you land on earth safely. And yet many of their near and dear ones. You were given a name and much more.

But what were the unnoticed things that were shaping you. 

Your parents bought you toys and cheered you. But after sometime the pleasure for you started diminishing. Whenever you used to cry they used to shout at you. 

You were often left alone. And when your relatives used to come home to see you and you quietly used to sit in the corner, you were observed as an inactive toddler. 

Still continuing - when you started growing, when someone suggested your parents about some activity or sports, you were underestimated. Still you must be hearing the words – “He is not capable of handling that thing. Look at XYZ uncles son, much able and strong. From the start itself he is tough.” 

I am not blaming our parents. But there are few things that needs to be taken into consideration before acting. 

If a kid fails in an exam, it wont matter much. But if her mind is hurt by the useless talks, it will paralyze him for a lifetime. 

When a child is born, he first starts looking for security. It’s a basic human trait. If he is not ascertained every time that he is safe, his mind will not focus on other things. Most of the parents fail to notice this. 

When mind is young it should be given complete care. That’s the stage when a child has maximum grasping power. And if at this time the child starts hunting for security how will he be able to grasp the basics. 

When a child wants to convey something to his mom, and his mom is busy speaking to the guests or over the phone. That’s when a child again feels a setback. 

A must thing is one should never compare his child. It has a drastic effect on the little minds. It dosent mean a child shouldn’t be scolded. But there always is a better way. 

Small anger gets accumulated in the tender minds only to blow at the later stage. When the parents really need the help of their child, the child doesn’t overlook the fire raging in his heart. 

The consequences are only the result of your own actions.

A message to all the current generation reading this-“Please take good care of your child. You are shaping his life. Don’t let any stone unturned. Your behavior can make or break a future leader. ”