Eclipsed

How the earth feels when it faces an eclipse. How do you feel when a shadow of awful things is casted on your destiny? We all agree good things don’t last forever in our life. How nice it would be if they last. But as I always say something which lasts longer loses its value or respect.

It is said that one should handle one problem at a time. Multi tasking is a definite no in such scenario. But what if there is a league of problems encircling you at a time. You have no option than to suffer quietly. One can’t risk of supplying its full power to one problem. Days pass on and the limit approaches where you desperately need a break from this to breathe fresh air.

As rightly said - As earth revolves, as wind blows, the clouds also move. So thus the dark clouds over us moves. But sometimes the wait is too long. Instead of fighting or resisting the pain we find methods to quit, which is wrong.

Today I had a chat with my uncle who has experienced this and handled it in a better way. Let me share this with you all.

When we were small we all have tried this trick. Imagine seeing through a hole. When we bring our eye closer to that hole we see almost 90% of the area which can be seen by a naked eye normally. But what happens when we see that hole from a distance. Do you see anything in that hole. Well in first place do you even see the small hole.

What did we learn from the above example. Juxtapose this with our problems/tensions. We feel we are in deep shit. Our problems are unique and cost too much. But from a distance when we introspect do we really feel that we are drowning in the ocean of concerns. Noo. We are still in a better position than a lot others.

This doesn’t end here. The above stuff was intended to make you feel better. Now comes the modus operandi. Just thinking we are in a better position won’t solve the issues. Learn to accept what’s happening around you. Determine the factors that lit it. Secondly think if you can turn it into a descent state. Leave no stone unturned here. Don’t wait for advises to come in or to that extent sarcastically driven motivation. Once you are sure that you tried everything from your side proceed to the third step called positive exploration. Whatever may be the outcome of your efforts endeavor for whatever positive things that lies in front of you because of your actions.

By this time you must be feeling stronger and lighter coz your mind has already cleaned up the unnecessary Trojans (Tensions) breeding in you. Ultimately it is you who has the power to change things around you. What can be negative can be turned out to be positive if you wish to. We are not concerned about the other way now. God speed.